Описание: The first book for daughters who have suffered the abuse of selfish, self-involved mothers, Will I Ever Be Good Enough? provides the expert assistance you need in order to overcome this debilitating history and reclaim your life. Drawing on more than two decades of experience as a therapist specializing in women s health and hundreds of interviews with suffering daughters, Dr. Karyl McBride helps you recognize the widespread effects of this emotional abuse and create an individualized program for self-protection, resolution, and complete recovery. Narcissistic mothers teach their daughters that love is not unconditional, that it is given only when they behave in accordance with maternal expectations and whims. As adults, these daughters have difficulty overcoming feelings of inadequacy, disappointment, emotional emptiness, and sadness. They may also have a fear of abandonment that leads them to form unhealthy romantic relationships, as well as a tendency to perfectionism and unrelenting self-criticism or to self-sabotage and frustration. Dr. McBride s step-by-step program will enable you to: (1) Recognize your own experience with maternal narcissism and its effects on all aspects of your life (2) Discover how you have internalized verbal and nonverbal messages from your mother and how these have translated into overachievement or self-sabotage (3) Construct a personalized program to take control of your life and enhance your sense of self, establishing healthy boundaries with your mother and breaking the legacy of abuse Warm and sympathetic, Dr. McBride brings a profound level of authority to Will I Ever Be Good Enough? that encourages and inspires you as it aids your recovery."
Автор: Ladd Kylie Название: Mothers and Daughters ISBN: 0751560421 ISBN-13(EAN): 9780751560428 Издательство: Little Brown Рейтинг: Цена: 1213.00 р. Наличие на складе: Нет в наличии.
Описание: Four mothers. Four daughters. One life-changing holiday.
Wishing you had less tension in your relationship with your daughter?
Desiring a closer relationship with your daughter?
Longing for your mom to just "get" you?
In "What Mothers Never Tell Their Daughters," Dr. Michelle Deering supportively guides you through the 5 Keys that will give you a clearer picture of what your mom or daughter may not be able to express.
As the daughter of an immigrant single mom, Michelle experienced the effects of having a mother who spent the majority of her time working hard to survive and make ends meet. Expectations were many but unspoken. Family dynamics were volatile and tenuous but not discussed.
Broken relationships were prevalent in Michelle's life, but she was determined to earn her doctorate in counseling psychology and become a licensed clinical psychologist.
In this book, Michelle elegantly brings together her experiences as a daughter, mother of twin daughters, and psychologist as she looks into the mirror of her life and reflects on the struggles she has experienced as well as the difficulties that her clients have overcome. She meets her readers as if at a caf table, candidly sharing those reflections with insightful clarity that sheds light on their personal situations.
"What Mothers Never Tell Their Daughters" gives you sage strategies and practical tools to help you navigate and improve your mother-daughter relationship.
Автор: Perry Sarah Название: After the Eclipse: A Mother`s Murder, a Daughter`s Search ISBN: 132851191X ISBN-13(EAN): 9781328511911 Издательство: Неизвестно Рейтинг: Цена: 3033.00 р. Наличие на складе: Есть у поставщика Поставка под заказ.
Описание: When Sarah Perry was twelve, she saw a partial eclipse, a sign of good fortune, she thought, for her and her mother, Crystal. But that moment of darkness foreshadowed a much larger one: two days later, Crystal was murdered in their home in rural Maine.
It took twelve years to find the killer. In that time, Sarah rebuilt her shattered life amid abandonment, police interrogations, and the exacting toll of trauma. She dreamed of a trial, but when that day came it brought no closure. It was not her mother's death she wanted to understand, but her life. She began her own investigation, one that drew her back to Maine, taking her deep into the darkness of an American town.
A memoir of "unerring power and hard-won wisdom" and a "tender elegy"* for a mother lost, with After the Eclipse "Perry succeeds in restoring her mother's humanity and her own" (New York Times Book Review).
Описание: You know your mother is narcissistic, but her actions still deeply affect you.
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery will help you navigate the negativity and heal. Few relationships are as strong as the bond between a mother and daughter, but the strength of this bond can spell disaster for a child of a narcissist.
Knowing the cause and signs of abuse are the first steps, but the next steps towards recovering from abuse can be found in this book. Within this book are the following topics:
Narcissism in mothers and the variations of it, as well as the effects on their children;
Whether or not a narcissist can ever recover;
How to break the cycle of guilt and why it affects you;
Various relaxation techniques to help during the process of recovery.
While this book focuses primarily on the mother/daughter relationship, it is still an essential guide for anyone who has suffered from abuse stemming from narcissism. It offers extensive advice on various possible reactions from a narcissist, as well as choosing the right therapist, which can be beneficial to anyone.
This book also addresses common questions about narcissism for those hoping to understand it better.
Focus on yourself and your own mental and emotional recovery:
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If you feel overwhelmed by living with a narcissistic mother or cannot get rid of the trauma, then keep reading..
Helping a person with narcissism to heal is a challenging endeavor. You need to come up with a strategy to internalize and practice what you learn in this book. While you are working within this relationship, make sure you take care of yourself. This is important and requires respect for the model to work. Consult frequently. After each meeting, debrief. Exercise your health and wellbeing and take care of it. Do not customize the activities of narcissistic individuals.
Inside you will find an in-depth analysis of the disorder to enhance your understanding about it. As a result, you may change your perception about it and eventually view the victims differently. Similarly, a clear understanding puts off the myths and misconceptions associated with Narcissistic Personality Disorder and gain grounds to support you in case of bullying or misinformation.
Anyone can go through this and no one should be discriminated for such an experience. Mothers with Narcissistic Personality Disorder are more likely to seek therapy if they see it as a means to mend relationships. An important barrier to obtaining adequate professional therapy for narcissistic personality disorder arises from the nature of the disorder itself, as those afflicted with it are often unwilling or even unable to acknowledge the problem's presence.
A significant first step in promoting someone with NPD to undergo therapy is to convince them that the issue needs to be addressed. Keep in mind that it can be hard to circumvent someone with NPDs defense mechanisms and persuade them of the need for therapy. Approaching the situation without judgment or blame is useful and acknowledging that recovery is likely to be a long and continuous method. Only then will we be able to recognize our children, especially daughters, for who they are and help them achieve their complete, distinctive potential.
Inside you will find:
- In-depth analysis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) that includes cause and treatment.
- The different faces of narcissism and their distinct characteristics
- Common characteristics of NPD and how to tell the extent of the disorder.
- The roles that fathers should play to protect their daughters from narcissistic mothers.
- Effects that you might experience in case your narcissistic mother is harsh on you and if nothing is done to stop it.
- How the disorder affects your relationship with your mother both in the short and long term
- Various ways that have proven to treat the disorder and how to go about them
- How easy and feasible ending the narcissism legacy is.
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What your mother tells you as a young girl may not be relevant by the time you finish your education.
Society is changing and the past gender values your Mother lived by are falling by the wayside.
We need strong educated women in our society to protect women and children living in a cycle of poverty as men are no longer the head of the house as previous generations were.
We as a society need to work together regardless of who we are, where we live or our cultural influences so all people benefit from living in our society.
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