1. Do you relate to this? Femininity, affective intimate cultures and neoliberalism.- 2. Managing relatability: feeling rules and the practice of moderation.- 3. The classificatory reader: relating to others through digital texts.- 4. Intimacy and value: telling the self through figures.- 5. The practices and politics of a relatable brand.- 6. Relatability, feminism, and the shifting sexual contract.- 7. Ambivalence and attachment: some final reflections.