Описание: Do you feel blamed for the bad things that happen to the people around you?
Do you feel responsible when people around you experience negative feelings?
Have you tried to help your family members with the best intentions but when things don't work out, it feels like it's your fault?
Chances are, as real as your feelings seem to you, they may not be an accurate representation of reality. You may have been conditioned to accept that everything is your fault when you are in a close relationship with a narcissist.
And they could be anyone - your parent, partner or friend. It is devastating that the people who are supposed to be the ones you can rely on turn out to be the ones who fail you the most. And chances are, they may not be aware of it.
The Narcissist is a complete compilation about this condition and how it may manifest in your life from someone close to you. Whoever it is, you can be assured that The Narcissist will provide you with the information to spot unhealthy narcissistic behaviors, the possible origins, and practical solutions to help yourself and your loved one
Here's what you can expect:
- Each book deals with a particular figure in your life - mother, father, husband, partner in a relationship, friend, colleague at work - giving you the information and tools to be able to objectively identify a narcissistic figure in any areas of your life.
- Examines possible origins of narcissism to give you insights into their way of thinking and how they experience the world and the people around them. This allows you to see them with empathy and grace that paves the way for healing for yourself and how you can help them without hurting yourself.
- The impact their narcissistic behavior has on you and people around them which is so important for you to know and understand so that you can stop blaming yourself, begin the healing process, and that you do not pass on the hurt and pain to others around you.
- Examples of narcissistic behaviors such as gaslighting, verbal abuse, emotional blackmail and manipulation, and more so you can identify them and have a clear idea of what's going on and the solutions open to you.
- Options of therapy and exercises you can take on to manage their behavior and deter further mental abuse you may experience.
- If reconciliation is not possible, the section on divorce will clarify the pros and cons to help you decide how to move forward, especially when there are children involved.
And more
The trauma and abuse that comes with being in a narcissistic relationship is real and deserves your attention. Your life matters and when you are able to take the courageous step and take action, the healing doesn't stop with you but for your loved ones too.
